A downside of living in the north woods of Wisconsin, is the lack of commerce centers. We have small markets with a decent selection, yet our options are quite limited.

As such, it’s not unusual to drive an hour away—and make a day of it. Dining, shopping, and enjoy being away from the usual.

Today, I stopped in an Asian fusion restaurant for a late lunch. The food is outstanding, and, of course, the girls that work there are incredible.

Susan remembered me from my last visit in September. Some playful scolding took place, because I haven’t been to see her, and she hasn’t traveled to see me either. Which led to talking about life and plans and what’s been going on.

Then, she asked if I was going home tonight.

These shifts are so subtle. Many of you know, I’m working on leaning into chaos and not sticking like glue to THE PLAN—whatever that means.

“Not if I have a place to stay the night.”

So subtle. Conveys desire. And awareness. And leaves nothing to chance. I need to abandon THE PLAN more often and experience what life has to offer… these are the invitations I’ve missed in my life!

She gets off work in an hour.