Then there’s the beautiful bartender with the amazing tits body.

It isn’t appropriate to compliment her on her figure... or more specifically, her boobs... is it?

This. This is the way I was raised.

Girls don’t like being complimented on their bodies. They’d rather be complimented on what they can control.

Bullshit.

My entire world is a lie. Once again, I. Am. Wrong.

Sure, she feigns shock at the comment about her boobs. She even diffuses the tension by stating we don’t need to talk about that.

But did I detect a hint of a blush?

Women aren’t men. Men get up, throw on something that doesn’t stink, and go out.

But women...

She knew how she looked when she left her house. She knew her tits were on point last night. She knew she looked good. Every bit of how she looked was planned.

So, as long as the compliment comes from a place of authenticity... why not compliment her on how she looks?

I am so shook.

She knows when her tits look great. Encourage that and tell her. In a world where so many women try to hide their bodies, because, let’s face it, there are some creepy dudes out there... we need to encourage our ladies to look great. For themselves. For us. For everyone.