I was raised in a really small town. It's one of those communities where everyone knows who you are and what you are up to... even the people you don't know personally have their own conceptions of who you are, however flawed their information may be.

A place like that instills ideas, beliefs, and eventually habits... and shapes one's personality.

Granted, I am not in what one would consider a big city now, but it is hard to get into my head the idea that people out there aren't watching... that they quite frankly don't care what I do.

I've spent so much of my life "keeping my nose clean" that I feel trapped inside myself. I still feel self-conscious when it comes to approaching women.

One thing I was able to do in Las Vegas was to debunk the myth inside myself that there is a scarcity of women in the world. It is this belief of scarcity that leads men less fortunate than me to date women they work with, settle for less than the ideal girl, and even marry the first one they sleep with.

There are so many beautiful women out there... so many options! If one young lady turns a cold shoulder to me, all I need to do is say, "Next!"

It's that simple!

And stop being so paranoid. No one is watching you... no one cares!

So, approach that gorgeous young brunette. There is nothing to lose and everything to gain!

What i'm listening to:

Brand New Lover
Dead or Alive
Mad, Bad & Dangerous to Know