It is just amazing how full of discovery a day can be.

Today i realized something i never thought would be true. Winter is my favorite season.

I mean, think about it... this morning i'm up before dawn. I hit the gym. I did some work in the garage. I've driven all over town today.

I've always loved the snow... so i suppose it makes sense. However, people at work are giving me a hard time today because i hate to be cold.

And they're right... i absolutely hate being cold. However i look really fucking hot in winter fashions! =^)

However, today it is invigorating me. It's giving me this energy that i don't experience every day.

Of course, some of that could be residual traces of the other night. Let's just say T's a great kisser.

As this relationship builds... and any others (since i'm not technically dating right now)... i'm starting to have reservations about how much i want to share here. I suppose i'll just take that as it goes, but don't be surprised if anything happens i don't feel comfortable sharing.

For her sake, or mine... you know, to protect the innocent (or potentially guilty).

Anyway, it's almost time to go out and enjoy the winter weather! =^) You should do the same... unless of course it isn't winter where you are.

Oh, it appears someone i never expected to even show any interest has stumbled upon my blog. I'm not sure why... or what i think about that... but perhaps she'll learn something here. About me, about her, about us.

She'll always have a friend in me if/when she wants... but i cannot again promise anything more.

What i'm listening to:

Stop!
Erasure
Crackers International

This would be laughable if it wasn't so bloody likely. Via The Onion.

Either way, an entertaining read on a day when people might just be indoors reading.

Ok, let me start this by saying that i am not an expert on roads or cars or weather.

However, the recent storm system down here has led me to post on this subject.

I've never been able to understand why people cannot drive when the weather is bad. If everyone used common sense and practiced alert driving then the experience of driving in adverse weather and icy conditions is NOT terribly different from driving under normal conditions.

Think about this. If you are an alert driver (meaning you ACTUALLY pay attention to your driving and the road) and you keep your car in reasonably good condition then there is NOTHING your car can do that you shouldn't expect, barring catastrophic mechanical failure. Like any other tool, everything your car does is a direct result of what you are doing.

Repeat: Nothing your car can/will do should surprise you!

That doesn't change when there is a layer of ice on the road. If you park your car on a level, ice-covered parking spot, is it not exactly where you left it when you return? There's no magic, your car isn't going to do anything you don't tell it to do.

I'm not saying you should drive twenty miles an hour over the speed limit, however you should be able to manage more than ten miles an hour.

If you are too scared to drive at least 20-25... you probably have no idea what your car is capable of and should stay home.

As someone who learned how to drive in the Wyoming winter, my early high school years consisted of learning what a car can do in certain conditions. When the roads are icy, you don't necessarily need to slow down THAT much... but you do need to pay attention. It is going to take you much longer to get stopped, so blowing through that yellow light is probably a bad idea.

Yes, i realize there are other drivers out there. And most of them fall into this category of being oblivious to the power of the machine they are riding in. However, the above still applies. As a part of attentive driving you should always have an escape plan to any situation you are driving in.

For instance, in a front-wheel drive car, if you are bearing down on another vehicle and you aren't going to be able to stop... you can always drop a gear, turn the wheel, and change the direction of the car. Just knowing this has saved me a couple of times.

Finally, i'm not going to pretend that accidents aren't going to happen. Sometimes you really do have nowhere to go... but you should be able to anticipate that situation and adjust your speed accordingly IN ADVANCE of the situation.

Again, it all comes back to alert, attentive driving. If you spend most of your drive time while chatting on the cell phone... you should probably stay home when the weather's bad. If you aren't going to drive, let those of us who will drive that much safer.

Personally, i really enjoy driving on bad roads... because i have learned how to drive my car and how to anticipate everything it might do. It really doesn't require a degree in physics. Just remember every action has an equal and opposite reaction and keep that in mind and you'll be just fine.

Also remember, while driving on snow is not the same as driving on pavement or gravel... it is also not the same as driving on ice. Snow is not nearly as slick as ice and gives you a few more options. Just pay attention to what your car is doing and you'll learn that driving is still plenty enjoyable.

And stay out of my way! =^) Seriously, be careful and MINDFUL out there!

What i'm listening to:

Brother Love's Traveling...
Neil Diamond
Brother Love's Traveling...