A hard pill to swallow… sometimes the woman you want doesn’t even deserve you. Period.

Desire blinds men. It makes you ignore patterns and romanticize potential. You want her because she’s attractive, exciting, familiar… but wanting someone doesn’t make them worthy of you.

A woman deserves you when she brings peace, respect, effort, loyalty, consistency. Not just looks and vibes. If she drains you, confuses you, disrespects you, or keeps you anxious… she’s not a prize. She’s a lesson.

Men lose years trying to “earn” a woman who wouldn’t even qualify to be their wife. The most dangerous woman is the one you want badly, but can’t build with because she keeps you stuck.

The moment you accept “I want her” isn’t enough, your standards come back to life.

Sometimes the woman you want isn’t your blessing. She’s your test. And the correct answer is walk away.