What is the biggest lie we tell ourselves?

Of course, there is more than one… certainly.

Allow me to submit for your consideration, this one:

“I don’t want to bother you, but…”

If this phrase so much as alights on the tip of your tongue, clearly you do.

Want to bother her.

Perhaps a better way to look at it… or phrase it is:

“I hope this doesn’t bother you, but…”

Yet, why do we consider ourselves a bother at all? Some girls? Yes. Especially near the end of your season.

If she’s responsive, though? You, sir, are not a bother. Stop with the self-loathing, and just get it done.

Before you really do… bother her.

What i'm listening to:

Give to Live
Sammy Hagar
I Never Said Goodbye