Tuesday, July 17, 2007, 8:47 am

Welcome to my evolution!

The past couple of weekends I've been running game, to some degree of success.

I'm not quite to the point where I'm sexing young ladies in the club bathroom... not yet.

Baby steps.

I'm still working on the inner game, and the confidence. Confidence doesn't seem to be a big problem for me, however, I do have difficulty keeping the conversation going.

After all, haven't I lived? Of course, I have. Plus, I've read tips on getting her to continue talking... but my mind still tends to go through periods between lost focus and totally blank. Neither of which benefit my game.

Last Saturday night, I met a young blonde at the bar. Actually, she came up to me. She was alone, waiting for a friend who would never show up. We talked most of the night, clinked glasses a few times, shared stories and high fives. I definitely had game that night.

Everytime she left to use the restroom, I figured she was gone. Sure enough, I'd glance across the room and see some guy talking to her... but then after a few minutes, she would magically reappear.

So, why didn't I close the deal? I am still trying to figure that out!

Fast forward to Thursday night, I ended up caught between a married blonde and a single brunette on the light box on the dance floor, each taking turns grinding her ass into my groin.

When the bar closed, the brunette gave me a huge hug... then kept holding me after commenting how I smelled. Still didn't close... is anyone sensing a trend?

I feel I'm close to being ready to close a deal... just a couple more baby steps.

These two ladies were definitely interested, and yet I passed on (missed?) the opportunity. Perhaps, I'm just not yet sure?

What do I have to lose, right?

Sunday night, I took the next step, and managed to get a phone number from another lovely brunette. What I found interesting about getting her number, is that while she wrote her number down she told me that she didn't think her boyfriend would like it, and that he might be the one to answer the phone when I call.

She definitely didn't seem excited about having a boyfriend, which if she hadn't projected that, I could have ascertained by her giving me her number.

Ok, so maybe I've blown two out of three deals in the last ten days... but that really doesn't bother me. Why?

Because, there are so many wonderful women out there... there will still be plenty when I'm finally able to run game to close.

Also, while it isn't likely, it is still possible that I'll be able to run game on these ladies in the future.

Besides, I'm learning plenty from the experiences, and I'm having fun... which is the important thing, right?

Absolutely!

What i'm listening to:
Women in Technology Your Woman
White Town
Women in Technology
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